“Hi,
Emma is my name. I am 31 years old. I have a problem. My husband is addicted and won’t let me go to any other sex.
Although we have been married for three years, it has never been. It all began when I became pregnant 2 years ago. It was the first time that I saw him masturbating in the toilet and reading men’s magazines.
Although I didn’t mind reading men’s magazines, it was normal for me to do so. But it bothered me that my man hid in the bathroom. I was always open to his sexual propositions and thought we got along well at this point.
I felt that he was affected by my inability to have sex during the final months of my pregnancy. About 5-6 months after my birth, I was able to resume sexual activity. However, it’s not the same as before. He doesn’t seem to be interested anymore, he seems bored and I don’t attract him anymore.
Masturbating in the toilet is almost a daily habit for her (she does it nearly every night), but she now doesn’t hide that much from me. Although I wanted to play his game a few more times, he refused.
I don’t know what I should do, because I don’t want to lose him or go to other women. Don’t even think about it. He refuses to accept my help. He gets upset when I mention these things and he says it’s not his business. I then leave him alone.
I also know that if he is left alone, he will continue his current path and jeopardize his marriage. What can I do to help him? How can I make them more interested? Is this normal? “